I am watching yesterdays Dr. Phil and I cannot believe what a debate this topic is. How women go against each is appalling to me. I believe working moms and stay at home mommy's have a tough job all around no one is better than the other.
Right now I am a stay at home mommy and it works for me. I enjoy being home and being present when my children come home from school. I don't think I am wrong for wanting to stay at home. It's a choice my husband and I made together and for my family it fits us.
I have been on both sides of the spectrum and I have to say I feel fulfilled being home. My identity has not been lost. Yes, at times I would like to be with the other adults but that's where my friends come in.
Mother's who work deserve the same respect as us mommy's who are home with our children why should they be faulted for wanting to work. Or be looked down on because they are choosing a career which in turn let me remind you that monetary does help a family. What about those mothers who have to work because they are the only sole providers to their families. Don't you think they may want to stay home and join in on the day to day doings of their children?
Please let's just stop and join in as a team, acknowledge each other for the hard work we put in. For the time and effort we give our kid we should be patting each other on the back.
We are all mothers and all do an important job!!!
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