NURTURE SHOCK when this book touched my hands I was excited because it was my first book that I would be reviewing. I have four children and happen to think I have and am raising my children well. This book would have made it an easier job if I had known about it early on. It happens to be a book that every breathing parent should read. You may ask yourself why? It’s a very simple answer because it’s about how we conduct ourselves. I took away not only how I want my children to behave in society but also how I can do a little bit of changing myself.
In ten chapters the authors were able to extend to us the knowledge of child development. How science fits in. They mentioned the difference between a young childs brain and an adult brain of 25. Here’s a quote, “We need to question why this idea of picking the smart children early even appeals to us. We set this system up to make sure natural talent is discovered and nurtured. Instead the system is failing majority of the kids, and a lot of natural talent is being screened out. I love this quote because it’s so apparent in parents as well as school officials. With out meaning any harm it’s done and this is where this book fits in for adults and how we to need to behave. And change certain things about ourselves. Let’s put ourselves back to when we were 9 and let this book “Nurture Shock” help us.
One more little eye opener do you remember when your mom told you as the phone rang and she didn’t want to speak with someone at that moment, “oh just tell them I’m lying down or in the shower”? Then a few moments or days later they were telling you how bad it is to lie or even stated, “Don’t you ever let me find out you are lying”. Well all they were teaching us was that it was ok to lie. Yes, we are the ones teaching our children how to lie. We the parents are the ones doing this. It’s time for a quick wake up call.
This book is going to shock you and in turn you will love it by the end. You will find ways to engage with your child/children and change a few things about yourself. So what are you waiting for? Head over to your local book store and grab a copy of Nurture Shock.
When I first started the book I said I didn’t like it but I kept on and only ended up loving it. I would recommend to all those who have children and those who don’t. I am being honest in telling you that you will find this book very informative.
